Dayyuth – Islamic Center of Reseda

Mr. Sayed Jumaa Salam,

Did you accuse me of attacking your wife & daughters on YouTube channel?
Did you accuse me of posting an article in Arabic language with all the cussing and bad words about your wife & daughters?
Did you realize the consequences of this fabricated attack?
Let’s say this is true, can you provide me screenshot.

Date & Time:
Friday, January 31, 2020 at 1:50 PM

I promise to reconcile if you can provide me a screenshot. Otherwise you owe me an apology.

Thanks,
The Management
Los Angeles Muslims
Tel: (562) MUSLIMS
Friday, February 7, 2020

Response:

السيد جمعه
أيقنت تماما من تجاربي معك انك منافق شديد الاحترافيه، وهذا أمر لا نختلف عليه.. لكن ان تكون ديوث من خلال اشراك زوجتك وبناتك وتشويه سمعتهم بمحض ارادتك فيما بيننا دون أي تحفظ بهدف تشويه صورتي وتحويل القضيه التي بيننا من قضيه دينيه بحته إلى قضيه شخصيه فهذا أمر جديد بالنسبه لي.. لم أكن اعتقد وصولك لهذا الانحطاط.. لم اعتقد ابدا انك ستكون ديوث لتلك الدرجه.. لذلك ثبت وبالوجه الشرعي انك رجل ديوث ومنافق من الطراز الأول
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مع تحياتي
طاهر أبو يوسف

Translation:

Sayed Jumaa,
I strongly believe from my experiences with you that you are a highly professional hypocrite, and this is something we all agree on, but to be a Dayyuth* by involving your wife and your daughters and their reputation of your own free well between our issues without any reservation in order to distort my image and convert the issue between us from a purely religious issue to a personal issue, this is a new matter for to me. I did not think you could come down to this level, I never thought that you would be a Dayyuth* to that degree, Now, you have proven to be a legitimate Dayyuth and first class hypocrite.

Thanks,
Taher Abu-Yousef
Friday, February 14, 2020

*The word “Dayyuth” was defined as somebody who has no jealousy with his family, i.e, the Dayyuth is a man who feels no jealousy and accepts evil and bad behavior from women of his family.
Reference: [Dictionary Lisan al-Arab]

Background:

Since, I haven’t been coming to Islamic Center of Reseda, Sayed Jumaa Salam came up with a new strategy to provoke me. This time he tried to be come Dayyuth and involved his wife and daughters in our argument attempting to divert my attention from religious argument to personal argument. This time he tried extremely low strategy and accused me of the following. After Friday prayer, January 31, 2020 at 1:15 pm he said to my friend Abu-Ahmed:

According to him, I have posted a comments on his YouTube channel in Arabic language.
The comment was about cussing his wife and his daughters.
Sayed Jumaa Salam took screenshot of this comment.
According to him, I have deleted the comments from YouTube channel.
He is planning to translate these comments to English.
He is planning to take me to court next month.
Abu-Ahmed tried to defend me that there are red lines and we have to respect the boundaries.
Sayed Jumaa Salam responded that your friend doesn’t respect red lines and doesn’t know boundaries.

Next day (Saturday), Abu-Ahmed made him the offer (show me the proof and I will make him do whatever you like), but Sayed Jumaa Salam won’t listen to him and kept yelling to himself. In fact, he tried to provoke me and wanted me to come to Islamic Center of Reseda (ICR) and disturb everybody. Instead I created this page to defend my actions. I can’t believe that he used this dirty trick to get me in trouble and defend his fake degrees even by becoming Dayyuth.

Hadith regarding the Dayyuth

The Messenger (PBUH) said:
Three people will not enter paradise; and Allah will not look to them on the Day of Judgment:

The one who is disobedient to his parents.
The woman who imitates men.
The Dayyuth.

[Reference : Ahmad, al-Bazzar, al-Nasa’i and Tabarani]